You are not alone! this is a nightmare I have experienced myself, as I use both older 1970 mercurys that the fuel connector to the engine is not compatible with the modern 8mm fuel lines that I use for later engines, so I can not just swap engine in fuel connectors to the end of the 8mm line, my solution was to fit my fuel tank to the primer with 8mm then from the primer another short 8mm that ends in a Suzuki female then I had different individual short separate fuel lines for each different Outboard fuel line diameter thus fuel in connector fitted with Suzuki male to connect to the female, it was the best quick swapped solution, now I just run mercurys on the boat so I kept 8mm to the primer then 10mm to the Mercury male You can get both 8mm and 10-12mm versions of most connectors but they are copies. I would rather use original connectors and swap fuel line to suit.
Alternatively just use 10 or 12mm fuel line for all connectors from the primer and sleeve the adapters that take 8mm with layers of heat shrink so they fit tight in the larger fuel line
Another option cheaper than Suzuki connectors is old Mercury connectors, they lock together and you can use a Mercury female after the primer on a short fuel line with your chosen adapter fuel adapter on the other end of the extension line that will have your Mercury male to connect to the female. Thus quick release and swappable this is what I have for my workshop to fit all outboards in for service etc. . Without having separate individual long fuel lines thus I can run all engines from one main line and tank by just swapping a short 6 inch fuel line with the right fuel in adapter, you could even change all your engines you will be using regardless of make to one make of fuel in adapters, that might even work out cheaper and easier
if so I would use Suzuki ones.