It's the one that you probably have a spare from the bunch of three that come out the big power connector.
One cable does plotter power, one feeds the network (if needed) and the third is your NMES 0813 in / out. Check Pikey's link!
For what it;s worth, I;ve built a patch panel so that I can use the Garmin henadheld to feed either the plotter or the VHF. Theorty being if I loose the GPS antenna, I feed it from the Garmin. If I loose the plotter, I still have a fully functioning DSC.