Hi.. Im sure everyone will have different ideas..including yourself
But I don't think 6kg overweight would make much difference to the transom. However it would to you carrying it.
If it were me..I think I would consider a Honda 20hp instead..simply because it weights 46kg... and that would make a big difference to me carrying it.
Would a 25 hp weighting 66 kg be more beneficial to you over a 20hp at 46 kg ?
I run a 4.3 quicksilver HD with a 25hp two stroke and it planes very easy with that engine.. If I had to replace it with a 4 stroke.. I would go for the 46kg engine any day (My two stroke weights 52kg)
But that's based on my back..not the transom