Most of us when using your OB model have found a wooden shim that raises the OB so the clamps are still just sitting properly on the transom plate is sufficient and doesn't usually cause problems in turns. I think this will be around 30mm.
Some folks have found even better results by building up the transom more but this needs the inner metal plate raising or replacing and the rear wooden pad moving up... all a bit much for a holiday mod.
When solo where are you sitting and do you have weight forward?
Re the drain valves they are just rubber flaps that usually last the life of the boat... are you sure there's not a bit of weed or debris trapped?
These parts should be easily available in France.
The rubber flap valve alone is Z2204...
Zodiac Diaphragm Z2204 - Drain Bungs, Sockets & Elephant Trunks - Self Bailers
The complete assy Z2218...
Zodiac Socket & Diaphragm Z2218
The bung Z2221...
Zodiac Drain Plug & String Z2221
To check these items are correct the overall assy dia is about 40mm, the bung 35mm & the diaphragm 31mm.