So are you not getting onto the plane.... not getting over the hump? Are you solo?
Got your pm... as long as the transom is rated for a 9.9 then no I don't think it's too big... plenty big enough though.
Have a look at this video...
See the bow rise at 22sec as he get to the displacement/planning speed "hump". Then at 26sec he has levelled out. At 34sec he's added crew and you can see how much better balanced the outfit is.
In this video...
you can see the significant bow rise despite the guy sitting well forward... but it does mostly level out when he's properly on the plane. Then again when he adds crew at 1min40sec it's much better once on the plane... still a fair bow rise getting over the hump though. Hard to know from the video but I get the impression he might have his outboard pin set so it's too far out... i.e. prop away from the transom. This would encourage bow lift.