I believe the 5lb relates to the weight required to compress a known area of foam by a known distance. I don't know what figures relate to the seat foam you need but it will depend on your weight to some extent.
I know some people have had multiple layers of different densities. The top layer is soft and gentle on your piles, the middle layer is the general 'shock mitigation' layer and the bottom layer tries to stop your arse bottoming out if you go over a big wave.
One of the key factors in absorbing shock, which is just high accelerations, is the distance over which the force is decelerated. A shock seat tends to have a range of 6" whereas Skydex and the like will have a range of 2" at the most so it is comparing apples and pears. Jockey seats tend to suffer with the foam being compressed with your weight to start off with. If you were to make them firm enough to stop the initial compression it would just give you a sore arse. I think the shock mitigation and the arse comfort have to be treated separately which is what a shock seat tries to do.
On the Atlantic 75 / 85, the RNLI have inflatable seat cushions to try and provide some protection so the fender idea isn't too outlandish.
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