can u get married on a rib???????

ChrisB123 · 05 March 2007, 19:32

Has any body had a marriage ceromony at sea, on a rib? Does any body know if this can be done? if so how would we go about it?

Cheers

Karen (The better half of Chrisb123)

bedajim · 05 March 2007, 19:45

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChrisB123

Has any body had a marriage ceromony at sea, on a rib? Does any body know if this can be done? if so how would we go about it?

Cheers

Karen (The better half of Chrisb123)

Bloody hell run while you can

ChrisB123 · 05 March 2007, 19:51

wow what a positive response!!!!!!!!!!

Any serious answers please, specifically, are any of you ribbers, memebers of the cloth?(i dont mean on the rag,as i know the answer to that already). i will be wearing an itsy bitsy teeny weeny, minimalistic bikini!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

havener · 05 March 2007, 19:52

I think for a civil ceremony, there is something about it having to be a building - so football stadiums for example don't count, as it can't be open air. Of course you can always do the registry bit and then go for a blessing on a boat....

Or you could get a ship's captain to marry you (to each other, not to him) but that has to be outside the 12nm territorial limit.

Have fun!

Simon

GED · 05 March 2007, 19:59

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Originally Posted by ChrisB123

Has any body had a marriage ceromony at sea, on a rib? Does any body know if this can be done? if so how would we go about it?

Cheers

Karen (The better half of Chrisb123)

Ian at Pennisular ribs done a wedding last year in north wales

rickuk3 · 05 March 2007, 20:02

The short answer is No. due to this clause:-
3.2. The term "premises" is defined in Regulation 2(1) as a permanently immovable structure comprising at least a room or any boat or other vessel which is permanently moored. Any premises outside this definition, such as the open air, a tent, marquee or any other temporary structure and most forms of transport, would not be eligible for approval. In addition, there are requirements in Schedule1 that must be met before an approval can be granted.
The full regs can be found here http://www.bedfordshire.gov.uk/Advic...ovedVenue.aspx

The regulations are going to be modified and relaxed but that wont happen for a few years

ChrisB123 · 05 March 2007, 20:04

Simon,

Thanks for the info.

This is something we are seriously looking at, crazy as it sounds, but why not!!

Do you (or anyone else) know a ships captain who would do this for us.

Karen x

BogMonster · 05 March 2007, 20:05

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Originally Posted by ChrisB123

i will be wearing an itsy bitsy teeny weeny, minimalistic bikini!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes you can then

Don't see why not, surely as long as the right people are present? Down here, folks have got married on mountain tops so I don't see a boat should be any different.

matt h · 05 March 2007, 20:17

Karen, sounds like a splendid idea!! beats a boring church any day!! Love to watch, i'l bring the wine, you bring the entertainment!!! yeeha!

ChrisB123 · 05 March 2007, 20:28

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Originally Posted by GED

Ian at Pennisular ribs done a wedding last year in north wales

Ged,

Do you know how they went about it (approved, legal)?

was it 12nm off shore (under maritime law)?

Karen x

Ian M · 05 March 2007, 20:34

He, he, and who is going to bring the wedding guests

ChrisB123 · 05 March 2007, 20:38

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Originally Posted by Ian M

He, he, and who is going to bring the wedding guests

Ian,

I had thought of that. Would you be volanteering to organise it for me.

Karen x

DM · 05 March 2007, 20:45

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Originally Posted by ChrisB123

Do you know how they went about it

Give Ian a ring and he'll give you the details. His phone numbers are on his website.

PENINSULA RIBS

jwalker · 05 March 2007, 23:30

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Originally Posted by havener

Or you could get a ship's captain to marry you (to each other, not to him) but that has to be outside the 12nm territorial limit.

Could a rib owner/driver be considered a captain of his ship?

Poly · 05 March 2007, 23:39

I have a vague recollection from looking at the regulations (which in scotland were slightly different) a while ago (before you could have a civil marraige almost anywhere) - that the "ships captain" thing was really a bit of an "urban myth" as whilst he can marry you in international waters, because it is in international waters the UK (and most other countries) will not recognise the marraige...

You could get married in a marina (on board) but not really the ambience I think you were looking for. As an alternative why not get married on a beach (or in a suitable building close the beach) and either arrive by or leave by rib?

Phill27 · 06 March 2007, 00:06

why not have a word with the RNLI to see if you could use one of their buildings?? im sure they'd be happy to recieve a donation for use of the premises!! you never know as you say the dreaded words they may get an emergency in!! or even better you could both be wearing RNLI gear!! (Not that id really want to get married wearing a drysuit, or even come to think of it get married in the first place!!!) But just a thought!!
Good luck with it all.

pathalla · 06 March 2007, 01:10

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Originally Posted by ChrisB123

wow what a positive response!!!!!!!!!!

Any serious answers please, specifically, are any of you ribbers, memebers of the cloth?(i dont mean on the rag,as i know the answer to that already). i will be wearing an itsy bitsy teeny weeny, minimalistic bikini!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quite honestly, in order to make a valid asessment, The Holey Church of the Rubber God must see a picture of you in said garment in order to determine whether or not this is acceptable to our order... it almost always is (no fat chicks in bikinis) so the picture is a mere formality....if so, you have our blessings!

Ian · 06 March 2007, 11:03

The wedding we participated in last year involved a civil ceremony at a registry office then all guests got changed into casual clothes and met the boat on a beach. We then ferried groups of 8 to 10 at a time to a small secluded bay which had a very steep and difficult path to it, where the registrar carried out the ceremony again. This was the romantic bit.
The boat was decked out in garlands and ribbon and really looked the part, in fact the groom thanked us for making the boat the highlight of the day, this was out of earshot of his new wife though!

So we have not carried out a wedding on the boat but used it more in the role of a wedding car!

Ian M · 06 March 2007, 13:14

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Originally Posted by ChrisB123

Ian,

I had thought of that. Would you be volanteering to organise it for me.

Karen x

Well now, that would depend on when, where and how big ...........................(date, location and bikini)

prairie tuber · 06 March 2007, 13:51

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Originally Posted by pathalla

Quite honestly, in order to make a valid asessment, The Holey Church of the Rubber God must see a picture of you in said garment in order to determine whether or not this is acceptable to our order... it almost always is (no fat chicks in bikinis) so the picture is a mere formality....if so, you have our blessings!

Dunno about the ceremony, but all you need to know about the consummation can be found here:

http://www.rib.net/forum/showthread....&highlight=sex